Where I live is not something I'm proud of. In fact, I don't want to invite my friends over. I've been wanting to move to a house for a while now. I'm not proud to say that I likely spent about 3 hours a day on design and home decor websites. But I don't have to look at other people's apartments or houses to know that mine sucks. First, it's a cookie cutter apartment with lots of problem and the ugliest fixtures. Second, it's filled with furniture we got from our college era and it still looks like a dormitory, as in, we have 4 bookcases, 2 desks, 1 futon that probably has dust mite in it, and no practical storage pieces like a sideboard. Third, you see boxes and boxes of print outs that Yves has accumulated through undergrad and phd, and our bookcases are lined up with texts since eco 100.
So tadaa! Here's my to do list for the apartment in order of priority:
- can I paint lamp shade with watercolor? Fabric dye did not work as well as I had imagined. If water color doesn't work, replace with a plain white Ikea shade and spray paint base in glossy yellow
- replace futon with a nice grey sofa
- get a sideboard (on its way) and refinish it
- wood crates as storage under bedside tables
- replace lighting in kitchen. It's just too dark in there.
- sell old desk on Craigslist
- paint shoes rack in white
- donate old desktop
- donate old text books
- buy an Expedit 4x4 to match ours and accessorize with Expedit doors and boxes
- use trunk purchased on Craigslist as new coffee table/storage
- upcycle the futon frame into benches (tentative start time: end of March)
- turn old coffee table into a desk
- a new blanket (or old?) to cover sofa
- rent a car to: visit Castlefield design district, Ikea, HFH Restore, antique/flea markets
- make a bookcase using vintage wood crates and salvaged wood (in the far future)
Gaiam has a great list of creative ways to reuse your old yoga mat. Too bad I couldn't really use my mat for any of these because there's cat pee in it... but next time I will keep my old mat around to cut it into useful tools like coasters, grip pads, sitting pads or kitchen shelves liner!
http://life.gaiam.com/article/50-ways-reuse-your-yoga-or-fitness-mat
我這麼幸福
沒任何權利不滿足
我說不出
怎麼敢埋怨那不存在的苦
活像一個湖
沒有起也沒有伏
我說不出
這到底可以算是禍還是福
該怎麼形容
(心)像一個球又像一個洞
它越大越滿卻越空
剩一點力氣
一點勇氣
來面對孤寂
相信自己還有放棄的能力
要一點力氣
一點勇氣
心裡的空隙 不斷壓抑
無論跟誰在不在一起
都只有自己
I should be happy
I don't have the right to be dissatisfied
I can't say
I daren't complain about the bitter that doesn't exist
Like a lake
With no wave no movement
I can't say
Whether this is bad or good
How to describe
My heart is like a ball and it's like a hole
The bigger it gets the emptier it feels
The remaining bits of strength
bits of courage
To face the loneliness
Believe that I still have the ability to let go
Need a bit of strength
A bit of courage
The vent in my heart is constantly suppressed
Whether or not I'm with somebody
There is only me
I'm drifting helplessly down a river of sadness and uncertainty. Rocks and logs that I previously held to gave ways to the quick current. I drank a few mouthful of water as a result of that, and now I am angry at myself for holding onto the wrong rock, and question my survival instincts that I used to be so proud of. I see people standing along the river, some watching me with pitying eyes, some trying to give me a hand. There are also others that are trying to tell me that I'm doing great, that I should just keep my head up. But I suspect that I must have made some terrible mistake or perhaps it's fengshui or something.
Trust me, I know what my options are. I can pray, naturally, and give myself entirely to God's care and trust that this is happening for a reason and I should trust His power. I can tell myself c'est la vie, the best is yet to come, and try to enjoy the scenary as my body continues to flow. I know I could also stay strong and anticipate what will be waiting around the corner, be ready for the next blow. I was relative calm like this not too long ago, before a big log almost knocked me out. It doesn't help that it also looks like it's going to rain soon. It doesn't help that what I've done so far have only seem to drag me further down the stream and add a few cuts and bruises.
I feel so lonely. I know I shouldn't. Look at these friends! Many of them are trying to help. But they don't know how it feels... which makes me so jealous of them. Why make them feel worse now? Their time will come when it comes. I know it will all come to an end, for better or for worse, but right now I just want to submerge myself in the river and not think about the end. Just let me be self-pity and sad right now. Quietly.
